Ok. This is a touchy one. I am bound to piss some people off. Out of all the emotions I feel when I talk to people, this one is one of the big ones. For most, jealousy, lives deep in the ego. It’s one of those toxic feelings that leak out of the barrel. They put on this “I am happy for you” pitch, but want you to drop your tray of food in front of a filled cafeteria. But why? Are they just horrible people? Do they relish in other people’s misfortunes? No… Jealousy needs company. It needs friends to wallow in its defeats and failures. This is why they seek out friend that have more problems then themselves. It makes their ego feel accomplished. This can be a tough one to overcome. Your ego tells you that you are helping them, but it is secretly slumbering in their pain. So how do you get off this train? Well, mindfulness is the key here. We have to have the knowledge of what our ego does. And then we have to be mindful to make sure that it does not go back. You’re going to have to dump those friends. What you don’t know is there vibration is keeping you just as low. Seek out people that have high vibrations and are extremely successful. I will warn you, this is going to be painful for you because you will be the lowest on the totem pole. It will burn the hell out of the ego. Soon you will understand that their soul is your soul and you genuinely want them to succeed because when they succeed……you succeed. One more thing. You may have a hard time at first finding people that have high vibrations. You are not sure what the pattern looks like. Don’t be fooled by these fake spiritual people. But keep searching. Your higher self will show you.???