We spend so much time searching for happiness. We think if we just can get that one job then, we will be happy or if we can get that guy or that girl, then we will be happy or maybe it is a car or a new house. After we get that will be happy…. right? Then you get that guy and there is always those few things that you focus on the does not fit your definition of happy. Well. You have been fooled into believing….there is that word…. Believing… that happiness is found externally. Sure, those things above will bring you temporary joy. But not happiness.
We all have this mountain of criteria that has to be scaled to reach happiness. As you get older, just waking up makes you happy. So how can you be happy. First remove the idea that someone or something can do it. You can NOT make yourself happy. In fact….There is no happy… come again????? You can’t be happy. All you can do is just BE….. From this point, it is like trying to explain what a rose smells like to someone that has never smelled a rose. What I can tell you is to remove the things that do not resonate with you that just don’t feel right. Add the things that do resonate with you. Do this until you can take a deep breath in a quiet place and it makes you smile. People that seem happy are the ones that are not searching for it.☀️☀️❤❤